Family Connections over Generations

In your own genealogy and family history research, these phenomena could be used to increase your understanding of the relations between certain family members across several generations even better !

The experimental research done concerns the study of long term life cycles (such as the 7 years cycles). In this research over some 250 birthdays of children together with their parents-grandparents birthdays was shown that family members with a multitude of 3.2 years between their respectively birthdays had striking resemblance’s on a deeper level.

Some kind of ‘soul quality’ became observable, guiding at the same time to a sort of ‘Karma traces’ and emotional traumas. It clarified also such simple things as deep sympathy, bond and recognition and it was better understood why certain family members in different generations had a positive or conflicting attitude towards each other. Not with everybody but only with particular members. And this was seen in a significantly higher rate than could be expected by scientific statistics alone.

More detailed research about the so called ‘7 years life cycles’ of Rudolf Steiner, (u.o. used in biographic work), has shown that this 7 y. cycle consists in reality of two smaller ones of 3.2 years to be precise, and if you multiply it with 2, you become 6.4 years or about 7 years (the 3.2 years cycle corresponds on average with 3 years, 2 month’s and 11 days or 1168 days).

Now, to proceed further in understanding the basics of these phenomena, it is really necessary to get first some ‘technical’ explanations, afterwards followed with some striking real life examples. So, please take your time to read through this mind provoking new research.

What is a 3.2 years life cycle?

For the proper investigation of all this new ground we need a special tool under the form of a combination of calendars. Suppose we make a calendar made on measure with all the years from 1885 till 2013, simply in a long column. In so doing we get a very long ribbon of 128 years.

Let’s further suppose that we roll this ribbon on a cylinder so that we keep every time 3.2 years between the adjacent parts (see Fig. 1 where the year ’01 is just at the point of getting ‘rolled up’).

Now, suppose that we than cut this cylinder neatly through from point A to point B, so we get a sheet of paper with adjacent rows of 3.2 years (see Fig.2 as an example with a reduced number of years).

In so doing, we have created a Life Cycles Matrix ® Diagram (more technical explanation about this later) and we see on the example in Fig. 2 that Jul. ‘86 (C) is adjacent to Sept. ’89 (D), Nov.’92 (E), Feb. ’96 (F), May ’99 (G) and July ’02 (H) and form a straight line or a so called ‘life line’.

The Secret of the 7 years life cycle (finally) disclosed! It is not 7 but 6.4 years!

Research since 1982 shows undoubtedly that this famous 7 years life cycle exists. But it is a little shorter. To be precise: 6.4 years, and divided in two parts of 3.2 years. With a simple aid, the ‘Life Cycle Matrix ®’ Diagram, you can research and find your own hidden life cycles in fortunes or conflicts in your life, and the underlying energy grid or matrix comes to light.

Pure chance indeed does not exist! Your life story is ‘rolled up’ in a cycle of 3.2 years that always starts again and again like and endless tape as a sort of very slow biorhythm. Each happy or traumatic event, together with your emotional reaction to it, gets ‘recorded’ on this ‘tape of your life’ and it gets imprinted. About 3 years later, a situation develops with the same character or meaning as the cycle before. And you get a new life event created again, tainted with a hidden ‘reprint’ of the old situation.

he actual happening gets it in a ‘reprint’ energy and is tainted by your emotional reactions of the cycle before. In the case of negative, unprocessed events, this causes the creation of vicious circles and this is highly uncomfortable.

But luckily you can also start to change this. On your own and in a simple way (this does however not mean this is also easy to do !).
How do you recognise your life cycles? On a special form, you note the most important events of the last years and you assemble your ‘life chart’. This can be done in a workshop, on your own or in private consultations. When you have found the key it is for the rest rather simple, as all good things in life are. But you have to use the right aid in the form of a ‘Life Cycle Matrix ®’ Diagram (see later) and have to learn to observe in a certain ‘connective’ way. Holistically, intuitively and in some ways emotionally into the meaning for you.

Symbolic meaning: it is this personal symbolic meaning for you that counts and makes an event remarkable. And one looks to the underlying energy instead of the actual fact. EXAMPLE: on a deeper level a moving, a new job, the complete redecoration of your living room, a birth, a buy out of an associate and marriage are in some way the same. It concerns strong changes, new possibilities, new horizons and evolution in a positive, upwardly sense. (see also the pages about symbolic awareness at Meta View #1 and so forth…)

A few examples from real life observations in timing circles, relationship and evolution:

* Profession: you have conflicts because on a deeper level your profession does not fit anymore your (karmic) life goal. And this shows itself in repeating events (long and short term).
* Relationship: after a painful divorce, you have several deeply unsatisfying short relationships. Maybe you are too anxious and in a hurry, reacting out of the old pain. Inevitably, the right partner can’t come to you as you are too busy with inappropriate persons. The short-term cycles can give a lot of insight here.
* Health: regular sickness, accidents are a very clear manifestation of a disharmony in the deeper layers of your life. It is not so easy to change and requires a long-term serious approach. In this matter the above matrix can help you out.
* Business analysis on the long term: through analysis of the events in your own company (connected with your own personal cycles), you can get fundamental insight and an overview of possibilities, general atmosphere and hotpoint to act. Just repeating each year the same fairs, mailings and promotions is not very interesting, looking through the ‘long term spectacles’. The right action with the right people at the right time with the right goal.

How long does it take to get first results? Almost from the beginning of this work you start to look different to your life tale. You get insight, consciousness, you relax a bit. The conflicts decrease and go-for-it increases.

And you start definitely to make changes in your day to day attitude and to respect the flow of Tao. So this starts happening in a few weeks time. With sufficient motivation, you get an obvious effect in a few months. However, to gain long term change, you will work with it for a substantial period of time to discover the purpose of your life.

What happens when you decipher your life matrix? You gain much more insight, acceptance and above all, you relax, because it is much easier to observe the positive tendency in your life than before.

Example: suppose a strong negative event is followed after 3.2 years by a medium one. Seen apart, they are only negative and you suffer. But if you see the connectiong string of events, you conclude in this case that the negative energy in it has been halved! And this is an encouragement, don’t you agree? By detecting your inner flow and the condensation into your life, one gets the feel to ‘dance lightly’ and to start enjoying life to the fullest.

An example of a (shortened) diagram

On top you see a line of moving and reorganisation. Second comes a line with accidents and conflicts in a negative sense. Third a conflict line in a positive sense. Latest a line of new possibilities and new initiative.

‘Revision’ of your own life on the long term? This sound abracadabra! No, it is really possible. Once you get grip on it, this 3-4 years of daily 10-15 min. ‘work’ will be a real pleasure! It is not an exercise but it becomes a second hobby.
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Remember that your own life is the most interesting item in the whole world and it belongs to you to the fullest. So, what can be more fun than ironing out the difficult sites and ‘grooming’ your own sensitive places? About these items, you can find on this site more detailed information, a free download diagram, info about professional training and so forth.