Course of Life - Biography Coaching #2

The colours codes are as follows: green = birth, starting, learning, beginning... rose = integration, application, firmly establishing... and blue = finalising, setting, letting go, transfer to another level. Everything in life is once started, invented, calculated, then integrated into your own profile, system, household, profession... and finally transformed, sold, given away, used till breakdown...

A: Adult - Integration 28.8 - 57.6 years

Full Adult. 1: 28.8 - 32 y: getting in full gear. 2: 32 - 35.2 y: adding even some more energy. This period in life is often the onset for a decision to go into a personal therapy, coaching or healing (usual with women). 3: 35.2 - 38.4 y: go, go, go... (and/or stress...)

Mid-Life. 4: 38.4 - 41.6 y: what is this all about? 5: 41.6 - 44.8 y: The famous mid-life crisis in its full glory (M: Conflict)... "My goodness, is this my life? It's still not good enough!"... Badly unhealthy attitudes result in sudden early death (heart). This period of life is highly represented in people seeking therapy, guidance and counselling. 6: 44.8 - 48 y: "Now I am really getting old as the magic '50' number slowly nears".

Final Adult. 7: 48 - 51.2 y: getting over the brink of 50 (!). 8: 51.2 - 54.4 y: some more small or big conflicts to solve. 9: 54.4 - 57.6 y: "this is my last chance to finalise in a 'proper' way my adult life-goal!..." Being integrated now but feeling also the weakening of physical strength and agility (I am personally in this stage now).

E: Elderly - Finalising: 57.6 - 86.4 years

Early Elderly. 1: 57.6 - 60.8 y: preparation for pension and retirement. 2: 60.8 - 64 y: actual retirement. In this stage some people with unhealthy attitudes die early. I found it striking that very often a man will die just a few years after his retirement ('stop'). This happens in my view because they can't transform the (stressed) life energy they carried in their profession into a suitable, creative hobby. They saddle down and stagnate and the inner life energy gets blocked and becomes 'death energy'. 3: 64 - 67.2 y: final stage of the early elderly period, usually rather active.

Mid Elderly. 4: 67.2 - 70.4 y: "being an integrated old person isn't that easy". 5: 70.4 - 73.6 y: the first 'dangerous' life period (D: death 1) as a lot of dying occurs in this stage because the tension in this stage is higher than before. 6: 73.6 - 76.8 y: those that outlive the 'death-1' period are probably in for a nice final stage.

Final Stages. 7: 76.8 - 80 y: in this period people are sometimes remarkably healthy and active. 8: 80 - 83.2 y: again controversy because more tension sets in anew ('death 2'). 9: 83.2 - 86.4 y: still going strong...

Every specific starting point of each life bloc at 28.8 y, 57.6 y (and in some way 86.4 years of age) represent very specific, rather narrow time line points where the individual feels a strong and compelling drive for change and transformation as he experiences a kind of 'mayor rebirth' in his life energy. This process is again the same but in a lesser degree for the multitudes at 9.6 years, creating an evolution in a sort of decades (the '10 years cycle').

Note: detailed analysis and writing about these periods in a lifetime are far beyond the scope of this article and will form the subject of forthcoming new pages on this site. See the above as some generalised information without any serious claims or predictions for you or your own personal health.

By working with these building blocs of 3.2 years (on average 3 years, 2 months and 11 days or 1168 days), you can easily reconstruct the various life cycles used in biographic work of all kinds such as the 7 years cycle (6.4 y), the 10 years (9.6 y) and the 'Saturn' cycle of 29,5 years (28.8 y).

T: Transcendence - Synthesis: 86.4 - 115.2 years (future possibilities)

(This section is not a part of the work of Marcel Dekker but an extension of it.)

Originally, the system of Marcel Dekker stopped at 86.4 years. But one of the striking observations I made with very old people is that they often just barely get near or just over the famous '100 years of age' goal. Only in arranging those later life periods in their course of life in the way as done above, it became more understandable what a possible explanation could be for this timing. The central 'sensitive or controversial' section between 99.2 and 102.4 covers this special spot (F: 100 years of age) very neat indeed!

Just a 'crazy' prediction: in my view, when living healthy, conscious and as spiritual as possible, it could well be that future generations can have average life expectations of 100 years, with maybe a maximum of 115 years. But I am afraid, I am most probably not going to see this myself with my actual 55 years of age in the light of my rather unhealthy earlier lifestyle !!...

These subjects of multitudes of 9.6, 28.8 and even 86.4 years life cycles (and 256?) are now the focus of a detailed and thorough investigation with a lot of people in therapeutic as well as self-realisation settings. The prelimery results are dramatic and galvanising......